Do the CHANGE with an open heart ... not only with an open mind … written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
Do the CHANGE with an open heart ... not only with an open mind … written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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The problem is that most of the times we understand the meaning and also the necessity of change … but we don’t really feel it.
We say “yes” … we start doing things … but we just pretend we really do the change.
As an example … you have an addiction for alcohol … you decide to stop drinking, but when you see someone drinking … you think again about the pleasure of your addiction.
And the chance to come back where your’ve been for such a long time is quite big.
But why?!
Why you can’t really make the change?!
Well … it’s quite simple … there is no connection between your mind and your soul.
I know that personal development tells us that “Fake it till you make it!” …and is kind of a trick to start the process of change … but real connection with the concept of change comes when you actually connect with the present moment and you feel that you can’t continue anymore in the old way … that brought you to emotional bankruptcy.
An individual that drunk for years … if he understands that his life is ruined because of the alcohol and feeling the need of change as something beautiful for his life … will make the change.
The whole process … is not a mental process … but a mix between thoughts and feelings.
I’ve been also drinking for many years.
One day i read on a blog the definition of an alcoholic … and i was shocked .. cause i was thinking differently.
The guy with the blog wrote … “An alcoholic is a person that drinks everyday … no matter how much he drinks” … and i was drinking everyday.
One day i decided to stop … totally stop drinking alcohol.
I realized that the alcohol changes me and my thoughts.
Even if i was drinking only in the night .. it was stealing my energy of the next day … but it took me years to do it.
I was not a … let’s say a professional alcoholic … but still i was an alcoholic.
And the change came only when i felt i want to be in control of myself everyday … in any of the moments of the day.
All our decision should be a union between mind and soul … and in fact decision of change should follow beautiful paths.
Think of the change … plan the change … but also feel deep inside you the must of that change.
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